Confession

In the world in which we live so many people carry within them a sense of failure, of inadequacy, of fear, of shame, and of sins committed. Although they may have offered all of these to God, and sincerely expressed their sorrow, the uncertainty and guilt remain. This uncertainty and guilt may eat away at them and contribute to keeping them from the development and relationships and life that God has in mind for them. They can make them feel separated from God, others, and themselves. They can operate as a form of bondage and oppression.

Confession, in the sense that it is referred to here, is an intentional admission of sin and shortcoming to God in the presence of a priest.

There is also an opportunity to discuss and pray over any problems associated with the sins confessed, if this is appropriate.

The priest is authorized, at ordination, to express God's forgiveness and cleansing to the person concerned, in terms of the teaching and authority of Jesus Christ. This may include prayer for the healing of the person in body, mind and spirit. It may also include the prophetic ministry in which God speaks words of "strengthening, encouraging and comfort" [1 Cor 14:3]

Our understanding of this sacrament is that God sincerely desires that the persons confessing should receive and know His forgiveness and acceptance of them, and His preparedness to heal and strengthen them for the journey ahead.

Although a private and personal confession may be as effective the person confessing is not always as sure of its result. God wants them to have this certainty, and the blessing that accompanies it.

The witness of many is that they have walked away from a time of Confession and Absolution with a new sense of wholeness and hope.

How confidential will it be?

It will be completely confidential. The priest is not allowed to refer to the confession, or disclose any of the details, to any person.  In addition, the priest may not discuss any of the details with you afterwards unless you, first, raise the matter.

Where does the confession take place?

It may take place in the church, in the priest's office or a counselling room. It may only take place elsewhere if the person is, for good reason, not able to come to St Luke's.

What should I confess?

Everything that weighs on your conscience and worries or disturbs you. There is no limit.

Will it affect my relationship with the priest afterwards?

Not at all - no matter what is mentioned. All of the clergy are very aware of their own weakness, and of the grace of God that has operated in their own lives. It is a special privilege to be allowed to be ministers of this grace into the lives of others.

What form will it take?

The general form is set out in An Anglican Prayer Book from page 449. In a more informal setting the priest will explain the procedure to you first, and then guide you through it.

How should I prepare?

Pray about it well before you arrive. Ask God  to make you aware of the sins that He wants you to confess, and of which He wishes to forgive, cleanse and heal you. Then make a list of the things you want to confess, mention or ask.

How do I arrange for a confession?

You may contact one of the clergy at St Luke's direct. Alternatively you may telephone the office and ask that one of the clergy contact you.